For the person who came home to a spouse who could not get out of bed — and the one still sure that asking for help means they are broken. Readiness is having already heard that help exists.
It Looked Like Lima Beans
For the person who cannot try the thing because it looks like the old punishment. It was slimy. They cried at the table. The father would not let them leave. Eventually, they saw it was good.
I Would Not Have Gone Until I Was On Fire
For the person who will not get help until everything is already desperate. The first hour is only talking. Waiting for fire is how months get lost.